Saturday, April 7, 2012

EASTER BUNNY & FAMILY TIME
In our home, the Easter Bunny visits on the Saturday prior to Easter. We have asked for this special arrangement so as to be able to focus solely on Christ on Easter Sunday, and yet still enjoy some of the seasonal fun!

After enjoying an Easter Egg Hunt, we spent our afternoon flying kites, and playing different egg relay games! We had so much fun--we were shocked when two hours had passed, and it was time to eat dinner. 



Jake was so happy to fly kites with his sisters!

Why is Amber's spoon upside down, and why does she not have an egg in her spoon?

Hailey taunting her father...


Thursday, April 5, 2012

JERUSALEM DINNER
Our "Walk with the Savior" has been a memorable experience this year. I have asked Hailey and Amber to help in preparing the lessons. This year I have felt prompted to allow Hailey and Amber to take part in teaching portions of the Savior's life. I think the Lord was teaching me a valuable lesson about allowing my girls to internalize what they were learning. By allowing them to testify, their hearts were more directly turned to the Savior.  One evening Hailey spontaneously started a testimony meeting as she expressed her feelings about the Savior. As soon as she finished her thoughts, Amber began to testify. The entire family was moved to tears as the spirit bore witness of our Savior's love for us and for all men. I was grateful for the evening.

One of our favorite traditions during this week is our "JERUSALEM DINNER". We eat what the Savior would have eaten, and we sit on the floor like the Savior would have sat.


Monday, April 2, 2012

A WALK WITH THE SAVIOR
The week of Easter is one of my favorite weeks of the year. A few years ago we started a tradition where we commemorate the Savior's last week. We celebrate the triumphal entry, the last supper, and the cleansing of the temple. We learn about the betrayal of Jesus, Gethsamane, and the crucifixtion. We spend an entire week focused on Christ and His teachings.

This tradition has become a "favorite" in our home. Our children ask about it throughout the year. They count the days down just like any child does for a birthday, or Christmas. Easter has become a focus of good in their minds, and not just because of the Easter Bunny, but because their spirits have been touched through Christ. Sure, we still include the Easter Bunny in our celebrations, but he has definitely taken a back seat, and to be honest--I am grateful that the Savior is the focus of our celebrations.  

The first night of our "walk" begins with a discussion on the cleansing of the temple and the importance of keeping our temples clean (our home, and our bodies). For an activity we spend a few moments cleaning the house, and then we color Easter Eggs!



Saturday, March 3, 2012

AMBER IS BAPTIZED
Amber had her baptismal interview with Bishop Nathan Olson on February 12, 2012. She was baptized and confirmed a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints on March 3, 2012; by her father who holds the Melchizedek Priesthood. Amber is a member of the Blue Meadows Ward, Meridian Amity Stake.

Friends and family came to support Amber on her baptism day. Amber could hardly control her excitement. Just before she was baptized she told me that she was a little nervous. I gave her a reassuring hug, and I offered her a few comforting words. After her baptism she wrote in her journal: "Today I got baptized. I was so exided (her spelling). I am happy I got baptized. I wish I could do it again."

I was blessed to be able to speak at Amber's baptism. She asked me if I could use the same object lesson I used at Hailey's baptism. Although I was a bit surprised at her request, I was happy to oblige.
After the baptism, we invited friends and family to our home for dinner. We had more than forty people in our home, which is actually a huge feat. It was awesome to be surrounded by loved ones on such a special day!

As Amber's mother, I am so grateful for her decision to be baptized. It is the first step in entering our Father's kingdom. It is the first step on the pathway to eternity. My greatest hope for my family is to be a forever family. Amber has made the first step in making that dream become a reality. I am so blessed.



Amber's best friend, Brooklyn Lowry, was also baptized the same day as Amber! They were thrilled to be getting baptized on the same day!

Brooklyn and Amber just after their baptism.


Aunt Kathy and Karen at the dinner celebrating Amber's baptism. (This was the only picture I have that didn't have funny shadows. I was so sad that I couldn't record more of the special evening, but grateful to have this picture.)

When Hailey was baptized, I made her a book of testimonies, a series of letters directed at Hailey bearing testimony of the Gospel. I wanted Amber to enjoy that same blessing. As I completed Amber's book, I felt a sense of peace that all of the time and effort put into the making of the book was well worth the effort. I know that the book will be a source of strength for Amber in years to come. Amber's book had more than 70 pages of testimonies. At the end of her book I included the first eight years of her life, which took another 200 pages. I am truly grateful for the inspiration in making this book. It will be a treasure throughout her life, and when times are hard--I hope it will be a light in the darkness.

My talk on Amber's baptism:
Baptism is the first ordinance of the Gospel. It is the first step towards Eternal Life. By being baptized we show Heavenly Father that “we are willing to come into His kingdom and keep His commandments” (Elder Ballard, The Covenant of Baptism, Oct. 2000). In the Book of Mormon we are reminded that baptism is a covenant (which is a promise) to “stand as a witness of God at all times and in all things, and in all places (Elder Ballard, The Covenant of Baptism, Oct. 2000).
What does it mean to stand as a witness of God?
There are three parts to standing as a witness of God. First, we covenant (or promise) to take upon us Christ’s name, which means we will become followers of Christ. Second, we promise that we will remember Jesus Christ. And third, we promise to keep the commandments even when it is difficult. There are several examples in the scriptures of prophets who have kept their baptismal covenant. One of my favorite examples is the example of Abinadi.  Abinadi was a prophet who was called to testify of Jesus Christ to the wicked people of King Noah. King Noah and his wicked priests did not like the words of Abinadi. King Noah told Abinadi that he would kill Abinadi unless he  took back what he had said against the people of King Noah. Abinadi continued to testify of Christ—he would not recall his words, and he was put to death.  As Abinadi died, he again warned the people to repent and to come unto Christ. Abinadi gave his life as a witness of the truth. I love the example of Abinadi! I love that He kept his baptismal covenants even unto death! Of all the prophets in the Book of Mormon, I have always wanted to be just like Abinadi! We may not be called to testify as Abinadi, but his example teaches us that we must choose the right even when it is difficult—that is the baptismal covenant. That is what we are promising when we are baptized!
A covenant is a two-way promise, so just like we promise to keep the commandments; Heavenly Father also makes a promise. He promises us to forgive us when we repent, to give us the gift of the Holy Ghost, and He promises that if we do this, we can live with Him again.
When we are baptized our sins are washed away.
This old tarnished penny represents what happens to us when we sin, or make mistakes. Each sin, no matter how small, adds darkness to our spirits. If we keep sinning, and don’t repent, eventually our spirits will turn as dark and ugly as this penny.
Heavenly Father loves us! And because he loves us, he has provided a way for us to forsake our sins and find a way back to Him. Through baptism, our tarnish or sins are removed.
The new penny represents us after baptism.  Baptism makes it possible for our sins to be forgiven and our “tarnish” to be removed. After baptism, we are as clean as this shiny penny.
Eight is the age of accountability, so each of you are still fresh and clean; however, there will come a time when you may get a few tarnishes. Because Jesus Christ died for us, we can repent, and every Sunday we can renew our baptismal covenant through the sacrament. It is like being baptized all over again!
Baptism is so important that Jesus Christ was baptized. Jesus didn’t need to have His “tarnish” removed, because He was perfect. He didn’t sin. Because He wanted to keep His Father’s commandments, and because He wanted to set the example for us—He too, was baptized.
As I was preparing for this talk, I wanted to know about my baptism, so I searched through my journals, and found the page in which I described my baptism. In my journal I had written one line. It reads: “I am happy I am a member of the Church.”  I am happy I am a member of this Church! Because of that choice I made many years ago, I have had so many blessings.  Today, as you get baptized, I challenge each of you to record how you feel. Remember how clean and pure you are, and then on Sunday as you renew your covenants through the sacrament, strive for those same feelings. President Monson said, “Decisions determine DESTINY”…. The decision that each of you are making, is one that will lead you on His path—it is the first step on the path to Eternal Life! The Gospel of Jesus Christ is true!

Friday, March 2, 2012

...more baptism photos




"Search diligently, pray always, and be believing and all things shall work together for your good."
D&C 90:24


BAPTISM PICTURES
My dear friend, Pam Grant, took pictures of Amber in her baptism dress prior to being baptized. Pam truly captured Amber's glowing personality. We are so thrilled for Amber's decision to be baptized! Elder Robert D. Hales said, "by choosing to be in His kingdom, we separate--not isolate--ourselves from the world...our baptism and confirmation is the gateway into His kingdom. When we enter, we covenant to be of His kingdom--forever!" (Robert D. Hales, "The Covenant of Baptism: To be in the Kingdom and of the Kingdom," Ensign, Nov. 2000, 6-9)

The greatest desire of my heart is to be with my family forever. Baptism is the first step in realizing my prayer. I am so grateful.





"The path of virtue is "less traveled" (see "The Road Not Taken," in the Poetry of Robert Frost); it will take us through life's meadows and streams and pristine lakes--and even boulder fields! We will need to lift and hoist each other up! The path may be strenuous, but if we are willing, the rewards will be eternal. As you climb don't allow yourself to descend into the willows. Stay high on the mountain. You are God's precious daughters! Because of the knowledge of your divine identity, everything must be different for us: our dress, our language, our priorities, and our focus. We must not seek guidance from the world, and if our true identity has been clouded by mistakes or sins, we can change. We can turn around and repent and return to virtue... The Savior's atonement is for you and me. He invites each of us to come unto Him" (Elaine S. Dalton, "Come Let us Go Up to the Mountain of the Lord," Ensign, May 2009, 122).


THE FELLOWSHIP OF THE UNASHAMED:
"I am a part of the fellowship of the unashamed. The dye has been cast. I have stepped over the line. The Decision has been made. I AM A DISCIPLE OF JESUS CHRIST." ~Elder Henry B. Eyring

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JAKE!

On the Saturday previous to Jake's fifth birthday, we threw him a Cars 2 Party. On his actual birthday, we celebrated as a family! 
Decorations:
The Cozy Cone Motel-Popcorn in Cone-Shaped Paper
Luigi's Tires-Donuts Stacked
Sarge's Surplus Hut-Goody Bags
Ramone's Body Art Shop-Face Painting
Luigi's Tire Toss-Bean Bag Toss into Tires
Outdoor Activities: Obstacle Course with Cardboard Cars
Red Light, Green Light
Plasma Car Races
During Party: We ate food that would be found at a race: hot dogs, chips, water, popcorn, donuts...

More Decorations.





...On Jake's birthday, we celebrated by going to Game World.




We have a tradition where we pass a paper labeled "You Are Special", and write what we love about that child. Here is what was written about Jake:
I love you smile. -Mom
He makes me laugh. -Hailey
Easy to get along with. -Dad
He lets me play cars with him. -Amber
Good at including others. -Mom
I love Jacob's willingness to be happy. -Hailey
Goofy boy. -Dad
Best at playing. -Amber
He cuddles a lot. -Mom
Fun Laugh. -Dad
Contagious Smile. -Mom
He tries to be like Jesus. -Hailey

Thursday, February 9, 2012

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BRYAN!
I am so grateful to be sharing my life with my best friend! Everything good has branched from my decision to be married to this man for Time and All Eternity in the temple.

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Happy Birthday, Amber!
Amber requested two activities for her birthday: The Cheesecake Factory, and Game World. We had so much fun at both locations; however, the highlight of the evening was when Amber got her ears pierced!

Cheesecake Factory

Amber wanted her ears pierced; however, in our home there are two rules a girl must accomplish in order to have this privilege. First, she must be eight; and second, she must demonstrate responsibility for a month. Amber has been working for over a month on reading the scriptures, and practicing her piano without reminders, and she has done a fantastic job! We were thrilled to surprise her on her birthday with her ears being pierced!


We have a tradition where we pass a paper labeled "You Are Special", and write what we love about that child. Here is what was written about Amber:
I love you smile. ~Mom
I love it when Amber tells me her adventures at the end of the day. ~Hailey
I love Amber's sense of humor. She is funny and clever. ~Dad
I love Amber's desire to do what is right. ~Mom
Gives me candy. ~Jake
I love that Amber wants to be a good girl and follow Jesus. ~Dad
I love Amber's testimony in the Gospel. ~Hailey
I love her that she gives me cake. ~Jake
I love that she watches out for others. ~Mom
Amber is nice to her little brother and plays with him. ~Dad
I love Amber's need to serve before getting. ~Hailey
I love her because she pretends to be Santa and gives me presents. ~Jake

Thursday, January 5, 2012

MY FAIR LADY
For Christmas, we gave the girl's tickets to "My Fair Lady". It was Amber's first Broadway play. (Hailey went to "Wicked" with mom and dad the previous year.) It was a perfect date for mom and her two little angels!
Eating at PF Chang's prior to show

Our night was a bit exhausting for Amber